There is a sizable difference between walling up versus setting good boundaries. The latter requires us to stay within the confines of the walls we’ve created. There is an inherent limitation in this model as it cuts us off from possibilities because many choices would require us to go outside the wall – meaning outside the comfort zone – and doing so makes the entire premise of walling up an unworkable as well as unreasonable approach.
Setting strong boundaries, however, allows us to be flexible in both our thinking and in our actions. The main difference is that we are free to travel and explore the world. This applies to both the inner sanctum of self and also considering resources of people, opportunities, and places. We are no longer stuck behind the walls of our own making but free to roam this world to make our own life without being coerced, abused, or kept from our inner mission to make a difference. We are no longer hiding from situations out of fear but free to act within the full 360 degree circumference of our being to shine our light as was always meant to be.
Trauma response holds us back. Change is feared. The trauma inducers believe they can own us. All inner work to free self from trauma and trauma responses is very important work. The siesmic changes realized being free of the illusions of trauma (i.e., never shine, never expand, always stay small, impotent, useless and the belief in hopelessness) give way to possibilities not considered behind the wall we’ve created to “keep ourselves safe”. This is an illusion. We are the least safe behind these walls as we also are choosing to spend our time living with the abusive taskmaster of fear within that resists change. This world continues to shrink.
Change is aligned with transmutation. Transmutation is our ticket to freedom and endless possibility. It allows us to sit with the discomfort of all those parts of our inner self swimming together to help find ways to work with and integrate all those parts for a much more powerful release of action that not only benefits self but also a much wider girth of inclusiveness so that others can be free too. This action is what wholeness looks like. Therefore strong boundaries are the way and the portal to freedom, inner growth, and inner discovery of endless possibilities. Walls are not the way. All possibilities stop with walls. And all possibilities begin with strong boundaries.
It really goes back to the very basics: merely existing in a life in fear or living in the expansive quality of our own innate freedom and creative nature. Both choices are consequential in how the quality of our life pans out and to what extent we have as our means to modify it once those choices are made. You are far more powerful than anyone or anything has ever allowed you to believe. It is when you really get to the heart of this realization that life begins to manifest in a far more natural and inclusive way. Possibilities become expansive, and your inner freedom, supported and upheld by your strong boundaries, allow many more choices to act upon the circumstances in your life as they show up with far more decisive and powerful results.
Don’t wall up. Boundary up. And be free.
Testimonials
“Prior to working with Frederick I felt lost, afraid and alone. I felt like I was at a crossroad and didn’t know which way to turn. Although I had this incredibly beautiful life I was easily triggered by things and found it difficult to “snap out of it”. After Frederick’s energy clearing, I immediately felt different. I now feel a deep sense of peace and calm. I feel connected again to myself and others. I can enjoy the present moment. I am able to step into my power and claim the direction of my life. I get triggered far less frequently and when I do, I am able to view what’s happening as the Observer. I am able to move through the emotions without getting “stuck” in them. They no longer have the power they once had on me. Frederick has a gift of seeing what does not belong and powerfully removing it. He can also clearly see what does belong: the Beauty, Power and Light that we are. Thank you Frederick, I am truly grateful.”
-Rebecca S
“After sensing that I was carrying negative energy that was preventing me from living fully, I asked Frederick to clear that energy (and attachments) so that I could become better able to serve the Greater Good. It was an experience filled with healing light from the Divine. Frederick is a compassionate, caring, professional and I am grateful for his service and healing gifts that help me to better love and serve in life.”
-Maybeth H
“This Wizard’s energy healing of me has left me with a surprising number of new awareness in myself. I know his healing opened space for me: 1) To be more deeply aware of my own ability to continue to heal myself and others; 2) Epiphany after epiphany; 3) The awareness to remember who I AM; 4) A strong reminder that I am not alone; 5) Love. A Grateful Soul. I see you.”
-Amy F
“I met Frederick and was honored by his presence as he worked on me energetically, clearing me from cords and other energies that did not serve me. Frederick worked on me on a couple different occasions as needed. I immediately felt so much better. I had more energy, more focus and clarity and felt more emotionally stable after the healing and clearing that was performed by Frederick. I had also taken three of my daughters to him as well. He is incredibly compassionate, gifted and connected to spirit. I just can’t thank him enough for all he’s done for myself and my family.
-Doreen W
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